A GENTLE REMINDER THAT LIFE’S RICHEST MEANING OFTEN BLOOMS IN ITS LATER CHAPTERS.
Q: Dear Abigail,
I’m 61 and recently retired. Everyone keeps telling me to “enjoy it,” but honestly, I feel lost. Without my work schedule or people depending on me, my days feel empty. I thought retirement would be relaxing, but I’m realizing I need more purpose. How do I find meaning at this stage of life?
— Searching in Cross Creek Country Club
A: Dear Searching,
It’s completely natural to feel adrift after years of structure and responsibility. Many of us define ourselves by what we do, not who we are. But here’s the beautiful truth: This chapter of life isn’t an ending – it’s a wide-open canvas.
Start by asking yourself: What lights me up? Think of moments that bring quiet joy – maybe helping others, creating something beautiful, mentoring the younger generation, or learning a new skill. Purpose doesn’t always come from grand gestures; often it’s found in small, steady acts of connection and curiosity.
Try volunteering once a week, joining a community group, or even writing letters to old friends. The world still needs your experience, compassion, and wisdom – perhaps now more than ever. Purpose at this age isn’t about productivity; it’s about presence.
With heart and hope,
Abigail
